Silver Linings from the COVID Pandora’s Box

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As the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic rages on, left in Pandora’s box after all the death and destruction, there is hope. Though many of us will think it pointless to hope for the best when things seem so bleak, what we can do is hope for ‘the better’. There is no doubt that this global event has brought forth our ‘better angels’, as we can now more clearly see life around us. The lives carrying on right under our own roofs; lives from which we got disconnected when work and the busy grind of the day to day took us away from family, from spouses/partners.

While there seems no escape from the pain and suffering, we find hope in the resilience of our children as they adapt to this new normal. A normal that finds them really getting to know their Mom and Dad, as they shelter and stay safe in place. Mom and Dad find hope in acknowledging that the shift in their circumstances has reshaped how they think. What used to be important, the ‘stuff’ of life, isn’t so much. They’re finding reinvigorated joy in the small things. the things that create memories.

Within each of us is the capacity to hope for better days though some may not be able to return to the job they once had, venturing out to find something different. Paying the bills is obviously the prime motivator, but finding ‘job joy’ is also important.  Perhaps people will explore self-employment drawn from a long abandoned hidden talent. Lots of bakers were born during the pandemic. So, too, many among us revisited hobbies of our youth. How many Van Goghs brushed off their smocks and berets? Maybe there are folks who got back into sewing, quilting, knitting and crocheting. Hand crafted smocks and berets could be big sellers. And then  there’s gardening - both vegetable and flowers. 

  Because of interruptions in food supply chains, there will be a need for fresh  fruit and produce. Might there be men and women  out there thinking bigger, with a resurgence in the age of the gentleman/woman farmer? Dairy farming. Beef cattle farming. Getting back to the basics of daily living. Up at dawn to do old fashioned chores, out in the barns. in the fields. Think of the possibilities. Might the COVID-19 pandemic have the silver lining that New Brunswick has been  looking for? Technology turned  us into emotionally isolated ME people, as we Facebooked, Snapchatted, Facetimed our way through our days. Self-isolation taught us a lot — mostly about ourselves and our need for that  people connection.

The hope left in Pandora’s box turned our attention to our children and what would become of their turned  upside down worlds, as many schools will be closed for the rest of the term, and those that will open in September will be changed — possibly for years to come. That, my friends, may not be a bad thing. Many parents are looking to the Little House on the Prairie schoolhouse days as a guide to educating children. What children learn and how they learn it doesn’t have to be tethered to technology, to high speed internet. COVID-19 family time found parents and grandparents revisiting their own distant past with the resurrection of board games, puzzles, story telling, reading. Cooking, baking, music and art appreciation can all be enjoyed as a family, all the while being teaching tools.

Speaking of Little House on the Prairie, I learned that a storyline from that series actually predicted what we are experiencing today. In 1975, Little House On The Prairie aired an episode called 'Plague', which sees Laura's father Charles Ingalls, played by Michael Landon, attempt to control a breakout of typhus in Walnut Grove, Minnesota.   Charles is left isolated as he doesn't want to spread  disease; he turns the local church into a hospital to look after those infected.  In a 1977 episode, ’Quarantine', the whole town goes into lockdown after there is an outbreak of mountain fever.  Earning power/bartering came to a  standstill.

Today, we have different ways of earning an income, of providing for our family, but all of that came to a screeching halt and we were actually thrust into a pared down life, a simpler life. I suspect there will be many who say they’re enjoying the slower pace in spite of the impact not working is taking on their bank accounts. There will be so many who are not financially equipped to function without a sustained source of income -  enough to cover ‘necessities of life’  would be the ideal for the disenfranchised and struggling.

A universal basic income, even in the short term will brighten the light on hope, so that people can make new plans, or tweak the old ones. While our federal and provincial governments strategize, we all know one thing   — how we educate children could benefit from the ‘old ways’ more than we realize.

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with her geriatric Australian silky terrier and a rambunctious Maltese. She can be reached via email at carmacrockwell@xplornt.ca