Where do retired mobility aids go?

Elijah William James and friend

When I was born in 1954, the diagnosis of spastic diplegic cerebral palsy came within the first year, by Alexander Torrie, an orthopaedic surgeon trained in Scotland and paediatrician, Barbara Robinson-Watson, both practicing at the former Victoria Public Hospital in Fredericton, NB. Dr. Robinson was the only woman in her class in 1947.

My parents weren’t long getting everything lined up to do battle with that thing that insulted my brain.

Over the course of my early years there was a parade of ugly brown boots into which equally ugly heavy metal braces with leather straps and knee pads were clipped. For a tiny girl, that added weight threw me off balance. I was exercised 4 times/day for 12 years, had knee surgery at age 8, and have the distinction of being the then Forest Hill Rehabilitation Center’s first child patient back in 1966. At that time, they treated stroke patients and a few with spinal cord injuries. No paediatrics. I was a trail blazer. The facility opened in 1958 with Stan Cassidy being one of its first champions. Years later, it went on to be named after him and with the passage of time, relocated to the current Dr. Everett Chalmers Hospital. My last stint as a pint-size summer patient was spent at Rosary Hall, being taxied back and forth by my favourite nun, Sister Monica Guest. Her sister, Marie, my family’s housekeeper when I was a child was a great friend to me; one of many who influenced my moving forward through a life that was marked by a ‘different’ ableness. Next year, I’ll mark 70 years of upright mobility. There will be cake!

It was during my last extensive therapy summer that I was freed from braces. Oh, what a relief it was. I still used crutches, of course, to ‘straighten and slow’ my wobbly gait. Face-planting on gravel would never be a good look.

I believe that my childhood experiences would have been enhanced with the limited/outside use of a wheelchair, to get from A to B a bit faster. ‘Walk this way’, was cumbersome and exhausting. Over the decades, my shoulders, elbows and wrists took a hit because it’s not ‘natural’ to have that constant hyper-extension. There were penalties paid for independent movement.

Times and technology changed how those ‘leg irons’ look. Today, moulded plastic orthotics make life so much easier for all those children who came after me. My first experience with them was when I was 28 years old when it was felt I should return to orthotics to correct a gait compromised by age and a wonkier spine. The joy never ends. Their use was short lived as I was lopsided, given only one foot required heavy metal correction and the other the slip in the shoe plastic orthotic. I think I got 6 months in, then called the whole thing off. I was an accident waiting to happen.

My young Facebook friend, Eli, who recently passed away, started wheelchair training at the Patricia Neal Rehab Center in Knoxville, TN, and at 2.5yrs old, the youngest child with whom they had use the microlite technology. According to his Mom, “he drove with only switches for quite a while, training for a year. The insurance denied the chair he needed so we did a fundraiser to pay for his first.”

Later, a more mature Eli got another set of wheels.

The struggle for families like Eli’s is real. The right equipment enhances quality of life, notably the learning experience of early education with peers. Being able to move around boosts emotional and physical development given that fitting in is fundamental to life experience. It’s amazing what appropriate mobility aids can do for a child who does not walk.

So, what becomes of orthotics and other supplies we no longer need but are in good shape? Lots of things aren’t custom made so could be used by anyone with a few minor tweaks. The ideal solution is to get the medical supplies that you no longer need to people who can use them because they are poor or have little or no access to medical care. Many organizations will take no-longer-needed, or even better, never used medical equipment and supplies from hospitals, doctors, and dentists but not all take donations from individuals. I gave orthotics to a donations scheme for impoverished countries. My wheelchair, after 28 years of service, was donated to the Red Cross for their program.

Should you have equipment to rehome, the best course it to advertise, with description and photographs, in local newspapers and grocery/shopping center message boards. Be clear on how you want folks to get in touch with you so that interactions go smoothly. If you use social media, that is an ideal place to connect with people who can benefit from what you have available. The opportunities are endless.

Locally, small donations can often go to nonprofits like homeless or women’s and men’s shelters, so please check with the agencies in your communities who may be able to pick-up or have convenient drop-off locations. Yes, homeless shelters can make use of things like crutches, canes and walkers, though space may prohibit keeping even one wheelchair on hand. Calling ahead to find out how what you have can benefit their clients is a way to reach out to ensure you’re networking in an expeditious way.

Knowledge is power.

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, a boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at mailto:carmacrockwell@xplornet.ca 

The legacy of Eli

Eli James and Tobias his faithful companion

        On Tuesday, 11 July, one of my Facebook friends passed away; a friend I never met but who impacted my life and the lives of thousands in ways too numerous to count. Most of my online contacts are adults; relatives, friends far and near, work colleagues from years past. Then there are people from across the globe I have never met and am not likely to meet; adults with disabilities like cerebral palsy, parents of children with disabilities, and clinicians who work with adults and children with challenges to daily living have become part of my interactions online.                                      

Then there was Eli. 

        Elijah William James was only 12; almost 13 come December, but he packed a lot of living into those years. What is truly amazing is that he did his thing his way in his own time in spite of the fact that his fancy sneaker clad feet never walked a single step. His personality carried him where he needed to go and where he wanted to be, with lots of love and support from his biggest fans, his family.

Eli was born with the rarest form of Spina Bifida --  Rachischisis or ‘complete spina bifida’. Spina bifida refers to the failure of the closure of the dorsal aspect of the vertebral foramen of one or a few vertebrae. Many of us are familiar with that particular spinal abnormality.

However, if many adjacent vertebrae are involved where the vertebral arches fail to develop at all, it is called a rachischisis, where the vertebral canal is open the entire length and spinal cord is exposed. 

Clinical signs range from silent (spina bifida occulta), to mild, to occasionally severe depending on the level of the involvement of the spinal cord or the cauda equina, which is the sack of nerve roots (nerves that leave the spinal cord between spaces in the bones of the spine to connect to other parts of the body) at the lower end of the spinal cord.  “Craniorachischisis is a variant of rachischisis that occurs when the entire spinal cord and brain are exposed – simultaneous complete rachischisis and anencephaly. It is incompatible with life; affected pregnancies often end in miscarriage or stillbirth. Infants born alive with craniorachischisis die soon after birth.” 

In an early interview with the Vanderbilt School of Medicine, Eli’s Mom, Dawn, had this to say: “We spoke with 10 specialists during my pregnancy, trying to see if we could find somebody who would give us hope or help. It was completely unanimous; every one of them turned us down. There had never been a child, in documented history, who had survived with the size lesion he had,” she said.

    Fighter Eli, who wasn’t expected to live a day let alone 12 years, changed the landscape of outcomes and opinions. That he did live was testament to his strong will to be with his family and enjoy his life no matter how long or short. And he did! 

His days were filled with laughing and fun, but always challenged by one thing or another creeping in to interrupt the flow of his time with family and friends. 

Thousands of people had the privilege of getting to know Eli William James through his mother’s diligent ‘diary entries’ via Facebook, which included lots of videos of Eli doing little boy things, then bigger boy things as he matured; by that point, activities included Tobias, the standard poodle service dog who, in reality, was far more than that. Tobias was a part of the family; another ‘brother’ who happened to have a lot of useful skills that allowed Eli to live and be in the world with a measure of safety and self-assuredness.

That Eli thrived was down to his own strong spirit to embrace life and to the devoted daily care of his Mom and the love and support of his sister, his father and others who were a huge part of his world. The medical teams who were a significant part of Eli’s life and living had a rare opportunity to learn from this little fellow. And learn, they did. He challenged their view of medical care and their part in it for all the days of his life. They most assuredly will never forget him.  The lessons they’ve learned from Eli will carry them through the rest of their medical career and they will forever be grateful for having known him as a fine young man with purpose.

Reading the obituary of a child is a challenging part of the circle of life; knowing they lived and had parents and family who cared about them, no matter the length of their years. We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t wonder what happened to them that took them so early from living a life that’s full, to leave forever a family and a future unrealized. Many got to know Eli and his journey with profound disabilities, awed by his powerful personality. Yup, he was a force. 

Though Eli is gone, the needs of children like him continue. How can you help in your community? Perhaps take a special needs babysitting course so you may offer relief for stressed families. Some haven’t had a break in years. 

You could be the means by which they can allow themselves a bit of respite for a few hours now and then, knowing their child is safe and well. What a gift!

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, the boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at Carla MacInnis Rockwell

                                                                       

Are you aging as well as you might?

 

Photo: Martin Wightman/Brunswick News

I concur with Bette Davis’ sentiment   that ‘old age ain’t no place for sissies.’

I’ve had conversations with men and women who live with disabilities, ranging from polio to arthritis to MS to cerebral palsy. Mobility disorders will always be challenging as they impact where we can and cannot live, where we can and cannot work, where we can and cannot get an education, wine and dine, and so on. Architectural accessibility will always pose challenges, particularly  in older parts of the country where there was little or no thought to the notion that persons with conditions that impacted walking, stepping and standing would need or want to go out and about in their community.  In A Christmas Carol, Tiny Tim rested on his father’s shoulder for excursions through their village; he was often viewed as an object of pity, inspiring people to be sad for his lot in life.     

In today’s world, the Tiny Tim image has been replaced with the likes of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Helen Keller, Stephen Hawking,  Rick Hansen and Christopher Reeve among others. Their marks on history are indelible.                                                                                 

As I age with CP, they and I share a common feature of the process of growing old with  wonky mobility. Because we use our good muscles to compensate for deficits, we wear them out more quickly than the able-bodied.  With the passage of time, those of us who do walk, layer a few other disabling conditions over the existing one; in my case, my shoulders, elbows and wrists are impacted by the greatest wear and tear as a result of alternating use of crutches and wheelchair and the constant extending of my arm to use my hand to touch ‘the spot’ as I walk about. I have frequent sessions with my TENS unit, with complimentary care including a visiting physiotherapist to keep my legs tuned into my brain with patterned movement so that I may continue to walk as I walk. I also use a lovely microwaveable heat bag. I’m more inclined to use that than reach for pain medication like Tylenol #3.   It’s amazing how effective heat can be to a strained, aching muscle. 

Ultimately, I must be doing something right, given I’m still uprightly mobile and independently living as I enter my 70th year. 

Key to healthy aging, that impacts the entire body, from head to toe is hydration. Not just with juice, coffee or cola, but good old H2O. Juice, flavoured water, or enriched milk products are also good choices. Be mindful that alcohol tends to dehydrate, so pay attention to intake.

Persons with mobility disorder who rely on others to assist them through the day often don’t drink enough water because they don’t want to ‘bother’  a spouse, a sibling, a son or daughter to assist them in toileting. It’s critical that families have conversations about the importance of the person with disability doing whatever he needs to do to stay healthy and out of hospital for issues that could have been prevented with sufficient hydration. 

Across the country, communities have been grabbed by heat waves. Community-mindedness is key to ensuring that those we don’t see out and about are having their needs met; again, I tout the value of ‘friendly visiting’, within your community just to ‘check in’ with those who would benefit from your care and attention. 

Water, water must be everywhere; available especially to children and older adults who may not remember to drink up! Frequent fill-ups are vital to those populations to ensure that they don’t suffer from heat-related collapse. 

In the nursing home setting particularly, care staff must be diligent about making the rounds with pitchers of ice water, encouraging water drinking and helping  those who are challenged accommodating the need. Necessary as well is assisting with bathroom needs, since they’re going to be increased. 

Sufficient water intake contributes to a greater level of alertness and concurrent lessening of combativeness which is found in some patients with early, or even fully involved dementia. Sufficient hydration really does improve mood and that makes life more pleasant for everyone. After all, our bodies are approximately 60% water so filling up after a bathroom visit is a good way to get into the habit of keeping the ‘fuel tank’ full.

Symptoms of dehydration in the elderly may sometimes be subtle, but not drinking enough water and fluids can have impact on aging bodies such as mine. Severe dehydration can lead to confusion, weakness, urinary tract infections, pneumonia, bedsores in bedridden patients, and other serious conditions. Though I do walk, I limit moving about, particularly in really hot weather, opting to ‘sit it out’ with a binge watch of a favorite TV series. Give me winter!

During these extended periods of dangerously hot weather, we must look after ourselves and drink water. From the medical/physical perspective, severe dehydration is a potentially life-threatening emergency and can cause serious damage to kidneys, heart, and brain; to avoid severe hydration, respond to signs of dehydration by drinking fluids that rehydrate. Consuming hydrating foods is another way to take care of yourself; watermelon, strawberries, oranges, peaches and cantaloupe, to name a few, are ideal hydrating foods. Friends on fixed incomes might look to sharing cost of an assortment of ‘good eats’. There are lots of creative ways to stay   hydrated and healthy during hot weather. What are your tips to stay cool?

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, the boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at Carla MacInnis Rockwell

Magnesium reduces the wobble in my walk

 

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When it comes to health and wellness, I’m my own best advocate; I’d venture to say that I’m an expert in living with cerebral palsy and how aging affects the physical body challenged by this neurological disorder. How the emotional health is affected is a discussion for another time.

In recent news, Canada is looking at new regulations with regard to ‘natural health products’, which includes supplements. Magnesium is considered a supplement. If magnesium, as a supplement, is regulated, that could put a wrench into the well-orchestrated health management schemes many of us have had in place for decades. 

I won’t stress myself prematurely, though, as most health and medical practitioners are aware of the role magnesium plays in the body. Unfortunately, we are a society that is magnesium deficient and that has inherent long-term implications with regard to overall health and wellness. The same can be said for deficiency in iron, C, D and zinc. The list goes on; all are necessary to ensure the body works to its fullest potential. Nutrition based acquisition of vitamins and minerals is the best course, obviously, but folks like me need a little extra oomph.

Because I walk the walk, I feel that I can, with a certain degree of authority, talk the talk. I know one thing for sure — medicating/sedating an uprightly mobile person such as I is the wrong approach if clinicians, doctors and therapists charged with physiotherapy or occupational therapy intent on insuring our quality of life, want to contribute to our independent living in our own homes with minimal supports required. 

For several decades I’ve researched how lifestyle, nutrition, supplementing and emotional engagement enhances our daily living. Of particular interest is how the brain, insulted by cerebral palsy is impacted by various minerals and vitamins; more specifically, magnesium, which has contributed to ease of movement, pain management, regulating heart rhythm, mental acuity, and more restful sleep.

 

Magnesium deficiency has long been held as the one of the most under-diagnosed and therefore under-treated conditions plaguing both young and old; deficiencies have been implicated in ADHD, depression, dementia, sleep disturbance, joint/muscle pain. The list is long. Even dogs and cats can suffer from magnesium deficiency. Yes, it’s ‘a thing’.

I am not a doctor nor do I play one in the media. What I am is an aware consumer of medical/health and wellness goods and services, aging in very good health with very few prescription drugs, with only one taken regularly. And that, my friends, is what has kept me on my feet for close to 70 years. Proper nutrition, exercise/movement, proper rest and lots of water do it for me.

Features of magnesium deficiency: chronic fatigue, lethargy or low energy, chronic headaches or migraines; high blood pressure; rapid or irregular heart rate; anxiety or panic attacks; lack of appetite; confusion or difficulty concentrating; mood swings; feeling irritable; twitching, tics, or restlessness; restless leg syndrome; shortness of breath; sensitivity to loud noise or light. Each of us may have a different experience with deficiency. Doing an internet search for ‘symptoms of magnesium deficiency’ and then another search for ‘benefits of magnesium’ will allow you to make decisions about whether you are deficient and whether you’d benefit from supplementing.

It’s intracellular and not serum magnesium levels that must be checked because magnesium flows between blood, the bones and inside cells. Ask your physician to order a magnesium red blood cell test (Magnesium RBC), with a repeat test after taking magnesium supplements for a few months. Keeping a journal will allow you to monitor changes in your body with regard to symptoms lessening or disappearing altogether.

My experience with magnesium supplementing began decades ago when I started taking it to reduce muscle spasticity, fatigue and bone pain related to aging with cerebral palsy and coping with concurrent fibromyalgia and aortic insufficiency. I continue to take a therapeutic dose of magnesium — a tablet at breakfast and at bedtime. A regular dose would be once a day. Since it functions as a sleep aid/muscle relaxant, I’d recommend taking it at bedtime. As with all things, consult with your physician before undertaking any supplementing protocols. What works for me may not be appropriate for you.

In discussions with those living with chronic disease or fixed neurological condition, I always advise them to have conversations with treating physicians, especially if supplementing with magnesium may allow them to reduce or eliminate one or more pain medications, or a sleep aid, or a daily antacid preparation. Magnesium is critical to the functioning of the entire body, so if you don’t have enough, it’s not difficult to see just how many problems can pile on top of each and how you might be simply masking the symptoms with pain management drugs without ever addressing the root cause — the deficiency itself. If you have relatives, parents, children, grandchildren or others who fit the magnesium deficient profile, have a conversation with them about seeing their doctor for appropriate tests.

Within my canine family, dearly departed Mr. Digby’s journey with magnesium supplementing began when he was 15 years old, considered advanced geriatric in canine parlance, when melatonin failed to address his wakefulness and nocturnal wandering. So far, my current geriatric canine housemate requires no such intervention.

Magnesium may also be appropriate for senior/geriatric individuals in the clinical care setting, who experience mental confusion and sleeplessness. It would be a win-win for all, as restorative sleep is critical to wellness.

Lullabye and goodnight.

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, a boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at  Carla MacInnis Rockwell

Impact of selective eugenics on the disability community

 

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In 1954, I came into the world with a disability, later to be officially diagnosed as spastic diplegic cerebral palsy. Twelve years of 4 times daily therapy followed. To say life was challenging is an understatement. Aging has tested my daily living in ways that will never be experienced by those who have no such impediment to freedom of movement, but I press on. I have to. Though many would say I do have a choice, in the grand scheme, any choice I have would mean giving up my autonomy, bit by bit. That will never do. 

Historically, disability was viewed as a moral problem, often bringing disgrace to families who had a disabled loved one. When I was in university many moons ago, I had a conversation with Dad about Mom ‘over-exercising’ me as a child. Now I have to ask myself – ‘was she?’ Were it not for that intensive daily therapy, I’d probably not be walking today, at 69 years of age. I’ve had conversations over the years with therapists who say some parents aren’t hands on enough and they, the therapist, can tell when a child’s not been regularly ‘physioed’ at home as per instructions.

Dating to my years in university, I’ve been keeping up, if only in a limited way, with the literature related to eugenics and persons with disability and other such ‘undesirables’. As the show tune goes, ‘there’s a place for us!’ We, as a society, have to decide that regardless of the deficits to physicality, intellect and emotionality, all have a right to a life well lived, as well as they can live it.

Those who can really have a moral duty to support and lift up those who need guidance to be safe and happy. Playing that role ensures balance across the board, with a sharing of the ‘community load’ to make everything run along smoothly. A win-win.

It would require volumes to discuss why persons with disability have been treated so inhumanely through the centuries. Based on my own understanding as a person so designated, we were thought to be instruments of the Devil, to be feared, to be starved, whipped, abused in unimaginable ways. Scary times.  Plato and Aristotle sanctioned infanticide for eugenic and economic reasons, believing that infants with disabilities would burden the system’s resources,” writes Irmo Marini referencing work by Hugh G. Gallagher.

Many were subjected to various forms of abuse right up until the end of World War II!

It pains me to know that in various parts of the world atrocities towards persons with disability continue to this day despite the 1991 UN adoption of Principles for the Protection of Persons with Mental Illness. Prisons and streets across the globe are filled with the disenfranchised challenged by a range of insults to health and wellness. Genocide will never be the answer. One way of controlling undesirable population growth, which is still practice today to an extent, was through sterilization, abortion or other forms of ‘family planning’.

With advancements in medical science with regard to reproductive health and procreation, families can plan what type of traits they want in a child. Should undesirable traits appear, in a prenatal screening, as example, the option to terminate exists. Eliminating human characteristics seen as undesirable in the unborn effectively diminishes those among us who are already here; we’re seen as burdens in some situations, which could set the stage for new eugenics practices. That would be untenable, quite frankly and the very thought puts fear and loathing into the hearts and minds of the disability community across the globe. To undermine social acceptance and solidarity must never happen. We’ve come too far.

Don’t get me started on the rise in the promotion of assisted dying. What goes on behind closed doors with persons with disability who are still able to minimally care for themselves and are of sound mind but are supported by daily caregiver? Caregiver fatigue may inspire certain conversations that should never take place unless a third person is present to act as advocate for the person with life challenges.  The perception is that it’s better to be dead than alive with disability, and to disturb the mental health of those who struggle with the notion that they don’t deserve to live is a crime in itself.

If we see people struggling, we must speak up. A ‘death of convenience’ is never the solution. Counselling for all involved in the struggle to cope is available. Advocating for caregivers and those for whom they provide care is vital to community health. Compassion in action.

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, a boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at  Carla MacInnis Rockwell

Meals on Wheels is vital to community

Photo Submitted: Meals on Wheels

As I was developing this piece about Meals on Wheels and their significant contribution to the communities they serve, it occurs to me that I, too, benefit from meals on wheels -- delivered to my desk while I write or my lounge chair while I binge on a favourite BritDram. My wheels take the form of a wheeled walker that I began using when it became clear it wasn’t safe for me to carry plates of food with one hand while balancing my walking with the other, touching furniture and the like. The meals are home made, from scratch. If you see yourself in that image, consider your own wheels for meals for in-home use. You won’t be disappointed. I only wish the model I got was available in red.

Meals on Wheels Fredericton, in operation since 1967, would struggle to meet the needs in the community where many people depend on their assistance with daily meals were it not for the volunteering spirit of people who have time to give. As with many other volunteer agencies, they’re always looking for ‘new blood’. If you feel you’d like to be part of their team, give them a call at 506-458-9482.

Even where I live, serviced by Upper Nashwaak Community Outreach, Meals on Wheels volunteers are always being sought after.  If interested, call 506-367-7735 for information.

More volunteers are needed across the board, with all service agencies, from those catering to the needs of infants and children right on through to community services for the elderly and infirm. Delivering meals is one such service that contributes to the health and wellness of those who don’t easily get out and about to participate in the community. What must never be forgotten is that they are still part of the community. The volunteers who devote time and attention to meeting these needs are often seen as unsung heroes. You’ll never hear them singing their own praises. That’s not why they do what they do. 

Ranks of volunteers with Meals on Wheels and other agencies of volunteer service routinely ‘top up’ to ensure they have enough bodies to get the jobs done. Many have been with them for decades and among that number quite a few volunteer with other services agencies. Imagine what our communities would be like without them? So, to Lynne and Marc Aube and all the rest of the teams out there  -- “you are appreciated, you matter and we see you. Thank you.”

                                                   

To know that meals are prepared at the well equipped facilities at the Dr. Everett Chalmers Hospital and the Meals On Wheels kitchen ensures that accommodation is made for a range of dietary restrictions, reassuring to family members of those who are recipients of the meals. As well, it’s heartening to know that those nutritious meals are delivered by caring people who do much more than deliver food; they’re a social connection, mindful of the atmosphere of the homes they visit, and if something doesn’t seem right, doesn’t feel right, volunteers will do the ‘good citizen’ thing and connect with someone who can visit the home to assess needs.

As this little old lady senior educated herself about the services available via Meals on Wheels, I learned about The Wheels to Meals Senior Dine-out luncheon program, in operation since 2000. Though the program has been on pause throughout the pandemic, relaunch is anticipated in the Fall.  Every Tuesday from September to May, approximately 50 seniors dine and engage in conversation,  with entertainment provided by local volunteer groups. The dedicated volunteers who provide transportation to and from such events are doing more than they perhaps realize. Boosting the number of volunteers strengthens the program so that no one who needs a hand up gets left out. Proper nutrition provided by Meals On Wheels also dials back episodes of dementia. When frail seniors eat in isolation, they often don’t eat enough, drink enough water, etc. A real live person with whom to engage is just as important as the food on the plate.

These opportunities for social connection contribute to the physical and emotional health of all who avail themselves of the services, whether client or volunteer. Volunteering gives purpose to daily life of those who have left a decades long ‘dressed for success’ worklife to join groups to fill their retirement days in a meaningful way while meeting with people who are challenged by issues that limit their full inclusion in community life. Aging and declining health impact the body and soul in ways that significantly contribute to people ‘working themselves into a state’ out of frustration and loneliness.

 

I learned decades ago, in a conversation with my father, who ‘doctored’ in Carleton County communities out of the then Northern Carleton Hospital, that a certain percentage of his admitted patients were hospitalized to treat social isolation. A day or two in the hospital was often sufficient for the person to reset him/herself emotionally, return home and carry on until the next wave of fear and anxiety overtook them. Physicians would do well to pay attention to what they’re not hearing during consults/assessments. They’re often key players in recommending that patients be assessed for programs such as Meals on Wheels or Extra Mural Program. Ultimately, it’s a collaborative effort and one that is important for every community where seniors are striving diligently to ‘age in place’. 

Bon appétit!

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, a boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at Carla MacInnis Rockwell

The housing insecure need uplifting

 

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Housing insecurity is not a new thing that’s going away anytime soon. Certain segments of the population by virtue of a life lived on the fringes will always be insecure given limited income reduces their opportunities to have the home of their dreams. For them, it’s a juggling act. One dropped ball could throw their whole existence into panic.

Thankfully, we do have systems in place that offer supports for those needing a hand up. Subsidized housing is one such mechanism but it does have drawbacks, if one can call them that.  As example, a single mother and her minor child live in a 2 bedroom apartment and she receives a sum based on the number of persons in the home. She and her child have lived in the same place for years, receiving a monthly benefit, often financial assistance through Health and Community Services. Once the child ‘ages out’ of the system of government support, Mom may have to move and with that is a reduction in her monthly income. Costs associated with moving may be prohibitive. Then what?  And where will she go?

The term ‘welfare’ conjures up all manner of negative connotations which is unfortunate because no one wants to ‘live on welfare’ as a life goal. It’s demeaning and it’s demoralizing; a punch to the gut especially when the individual may have a health challenge, whether physical, mental or emotional and is not and never will be able to contribute to the labour market in any sustained way. They can, however, contribute in other ways, if given opportunity. 

Those of us who can have a duty to be unbegrudgingly uplifting to those who struggle making dollars stretch to cover housing, food, other household maintenance amenities. There’s little left for discretionary spending and when there’s belt tightening, a single mother will most always meet the needs of her child before her own.

It is not our job to police how those of lesser means spend their money, regardless of where it comes from. In today’s world, television and computer, no longer considered luxury items, are a vital part of education and employment advancement; a significant part of daily life for the majority of us. An internet connected computer is often the way out of a challenging situation, like minimum wage employment that is no longer meeting the financial costs associated with living. 

What all of us can do is advocate for more enriching training programs that are relevant to the times in which we live and will hold the interest of students undertaking to educate themselves to be job ready in situations that allow them to show what they’re really made of. Setting the stage with education and apprenticeship allows participants to get on track to pay their own way, effectively reimbursing the ‘public purse’ that was available to help them when they needed it.                                    

By definition, affordable, with regard to housing/accommodations, is set at 30 percent or less of household income. According to Global News, “a report from a tenant advocacy organization shows that the number of of affordable units in New Brunswick declined rapidly from 2016 to 2021, with the New Brunswick Coalition for Tenants’ Rights releasing a report in early May showing that the number of units priced at $750/month and below and fell by at least 8,600 or 25 percent over a 5 year period. Units available during that time rented for $1,200-$1,499 doubled and those over $1,500 tripled.”

To be caught in the hamster wheel of chasing through each month focused almost exclusively on how to pay for it all is beyond stressful. You and I don’t have to be living in it to know that. Then add a child or two into the mix; small children may share a room, with Mom in the other. Fathers may or may not be involved, or the household’s Mom is actually a Dad playing a dual role. They can’t afford the luxury of wishful thinking when worry about how to put food on the table is foremost in their mind.

Many communities are under-serving those in most need of safe, health, clean and affordable housing for themselves and their families, which often may include the verboten cat or dog. When it comes to pet occupants, size does matter and sometimes concessions can be made if prospective tenants in financial crisis have previously demonstrated that they were respectful of previous home or apartment rentals with their pet in tow.  That respectful care will hold them in good stead if they find themselves in need of new accommodations and hope to include their pet. A person’s housing choices are often attached to the needs of a pet, particularly if the companion animal is the only emotional attachment the individual has in life. 

Prices have taken a huge jump as more and more outside investors are buying up properties with tenants already in place, and immediately doubling or trebling the rent. That practice is forcing people out of the places they’ve called home for years. There doesn’t seem to be much recourse as owners are not in the province and their agent/management staff field all tenant inquiries, sometimes not in a satisfactory way. As more of us become voice for those who feel they won’t be heard, changes will come. Be that person.

There’s health and safety in numbers.

  

Carla MacInnis Rockwell is a freelance writer and disability rights advocate living outside Fredericton, NB with Miss Lexie, a rambunctious Maltese and Mr. Malcolm, a boisterous Havanese. She can be reached via email at  Carla MacInnis Rockwell